This week I am thinking about how to Motivate the Children.
My oldest has his GCSEs this year and all we hear is how his friends don’t have to revise lol. We tend to motivate with rewards.
Whether that is with stickers
We like to give them praise (yay well done you got it to forwards – yaaay!)
You are doing so well I think we can take those stabilizers off.
Or quality time, or going to a place they want to.
But when we took our 9 year old to a Cubs Gala (for 8-10 year olds) we heard a very different approach to motivating a child
“Tabitha, you can do better than that!” shouted this woman as her daughter swam, “push, push, push,” she yelled, “stretch those arms!”
How do you motivate your children?
Well as a mum of only a just turned 2 year old it is mostly “clever boy” or “good job”. The general theme is that nothing is really impossible and we could at least give it a try. His daddy is very big on giving everything a try and I swear sometimes I have to close my eyes!
Looks like some good outdoors half term fun going on there, I would be motivated with swimming and cycling! Lovely photos, thank you for linking with Country Kids too.
Wasn’t our half term, we had it the week before. Thank you.
Well, Shys about to turn 1 and motivation for her at the moment is a lot of clapping with “yayyyy good girl” thrown over which always puts a smile on her face and makes her clap too! Because she likes it so much, she will amost certainly do whatever it is again to receive such praise!
We also motivate with rewards, usually the children pick a special place they want to visit or a special treat they want to make.
I have no children-but this can be observed in a workplace as well–some bosses, like you, praise the good–others seem to focus only on the bad or “doing better”–from my experiences praise of accomplishments will cause a person (or a child) to try even harder–while negativity will eventually cause that person to give up!!
I motivate with various methods: some the same as you as in rewards and incentives, but sometimes I motivate them with consequences which are more negative (if you don’t do ‘x’, then ‘y’ is not going to happen). I try to be varied and I find it depends on the age of the child.
Bribe them with food… 🙂 No actually, that is the one thing my wife won’t let us do. Typically, it involves consequences if they don’t do something they should.